Taking the first step toward divorce can be overwhelming. If you’ve scheduled a consultation with a divorce lawyer, you might be feeling uncertain about what the meeting will involve and how best to prepare. Knowing what to expect can help ease your anxiety and ensure that you make the most of your time with your attorney.

Here’s a breakdown of what typically happens during that first meeting—and how you can be ready for it.

1. You’ll Share Your Story

Your divorce lawyer will begin by asking questions about your current situation. This includes details about your marriage, any children you have, your assets and debts, and what led you to consider divorce. While it may be emotional to talk about, being open and honest will help your attorney understand your unique circumstances.

Expect questions like:

• How long have you been married?

• Do you and your spouse currently live together?

• Are there any incidents of domestic violence or abuse?

• What are your goals regarding child custody, property division, or spousal support?

2. You’ll Learn About the Divorce Process

Your attorney will explain how divorce works in your state, including the steps involved and the expected timeline. They’ll walk you through key terms like “equitable distribution,” “parenting plans,” or “temporary orders.” If your case is likely to be contested, they’ll discuss what that means and how it could affect the process.

3. You’ll Discuss Legal Options

Every divorce is different. During your consultation, your lawyer will outline possible paths forward—such as mediation, collaborative divorce, or litigation—and help you determine which route may be best for your case.

They’ll also help you understand:

• Whether you have grounds for divorce (if required in your state)

• What temporary relief you can request (like spousal support or custody)

• What to expect in terms of legal fees and court costs

4. You’ll Be Asked for Key Documents

You don’t need to bring every document you own, but bringing some basic financial information can be helpful. Your attorney may ask you to provide:

• Tax returns

• Pay stubs or income statements

• A list of marital assets and debts

• Any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements

If you don’t have these documents yet, don’t worry—your lawyer will give you a checklist of what to gather.

5. You’ll Have a Chance to Ask Questions

This is your opportunity to ask the questions that matter most to you. Don’t be afraid to bring a list. Common questions include:

• How long will the process take?

• What are my rights regarding custody or visitation?

• How is property usually divided?

• How much will the divorce cost?

A good lawyer will give you honest answers—even if they’re not always what you want to hear—so that you can plan accordingly.

Final Thoughts: The First Step Toward a New Chapter

Meeting with a divorce lawyer for the first time can be emotional, but it’s also empowering. It’s your chance to get the clarity, direction, and support you need during a difficult time. Come prepared, ask questions, and most importantly, choose a lawyer you feel comfortable with. The right attorney can make all the difference as you begin this new chapter of your life.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.