What if the Woman is the Violent One?

When you think of domestic violence you usually assume that the woman is the victim.moving What if the man is the victim. The man is the victim 10 percent of the time, according to National Domestic Violence Hotline. Male victims have the same rights and resources as female victims.

Violence and abuse can come in many different forms. It have have a very negative effect on the victim. Even verbal abuse can take its toll. The victim may not be able to recover until they are removed from the situation. It may not be easy to get out from under an abusive wife. There are a number of things that can drag you back into the situation.

You need to have a plan and some good advice. You should meet with a divorce attorney and have them help you with a plan. It is not a good idea to share your plan with your abusive spouse. If you do they are likely to use the information to manipulate the situation.

The first step is to open a separate bank account and start handling your money separately. The goal is not to hide money or try to avoid full disclosure. Your attorney will tell you the steps that you can take without violating any divorce laws or principals.

If there are children involved, that makes things even more complicated. You need to determine if your abusive wife is a risk to the children. Once you have moved out of the family home, you should avoid communicating with your ex spouse directly if possible. You can communicate through your attorney.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
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Divorce and Insurance

Divorce is full of complications. Here’s one you may not have thought of. You may have insurance coveragecoverage together, and you may have to find new insurance separately. And the separate coverage for the two of you is probably going to be more expensive than the shared coverage.

Spouses commonly maintain health insurance coverage on one or the other’s employer plans, typically choosing the option that makes the most sense for their personal medical needs.

If you are the health insurance policyholder, it is important to remind your spouse that they going to have to either find a new policy, which can include single-person coverage through:

. Employee policies available through their work
. Private insurance coverage
. Federal COBRA coverage, which allows their ex-spouse’s insurance coverage to remain intact at a direct cost for up to 36 months

If you have children, their coverage will be determined as part of the child custody and child support measures within the divorce decision.

Car, Homeowner, or Rental Insurance
If you are the spouse who is moving away from the shared home during the divorce proceedings, it is important to update your records with your car insurance company, so you are covered in the event of property damage while living at your new place.

If you have teenage or young adult children who are insured under your car insurance policy, talk to the insurance company about whose policy will offer the better coverage going forward, based on where the child spends the most time. S/he may need to be to be listed on both policies.

Likewise, homeowner’s or renter’s insurance is a necessary part of life. If you and your spouse are divorcing, the person who moves is going to need a separate policy for the car and the new home — even if the space is a temporary living arrangement.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.

Child Custody Violations

One of the most troubling part of a divorce is the child custody arrangements. Usually the child leavingjudge asks that the parties work out a custody arrangement through mediation, and if that fails, the arrangements are set by the court. Bu what can you do when the other party doesn’t live up to the arrangements?

The best way to determine if there has been a violation of your parenting plan agreement is to talk with our experienced family law attorney  to understand whether a well-defined legal violation has occurred.

Violations can occur when one parent:

. Extends their time-sharing hours beyond the agreement and without permission from the other parent
. Threatens that they will not return the child at all
. Refuses to pay their share of expenses, even though all documentation/receipts have been submitted
. Allows the children to spend time with parties who have been prohibited by the court from visiting them
. Divulges negative information/comments about the other parent regularly
. Exposes the children to dangerous or immoral situations

After speaking with our accomplished  family law attorney, we will outline the process of seeking enforcement of the court-ordered parenting plan, so you know exactly what to expect when we take your case before a judge.

We will establish the evidentiary requirements necessary to establish contempt, and seek the immediate enforcement of your parenting plan, so you can ensure your children’s safety and success remains paramount in their upbringing — no matter where they are spending time.

If you believe your ex-spouse or ex-partner has violated the Florida parenting plan agreement you have in place, contact our office.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.

Do I Get To Keep My Pension in a Divorce

Splitting a pension with your ex spouse may not be something you thought about when Piggy bank with word PENSION and coins on table. Space for textyou got married, but it is a definite reality. A pension is a marital asset, and that portion of the pension that was accrued during the time that you were married generally needs to be split with your ex spouse.

A pension earned by one spouse is usually considered a joint asset, as are other retirement accounts, such as 401(k)s, 403(b)s and IRAs, though state laws govern the latter. Usually, whatever is earned prior to the marriage remains individual property, while what is earned during the marriage is considered a joint asset.

However, the divisions of pensions in a divorce isn’t always a cut-and-dry situation. For one, unless you are actively receiving a pension (and thus know the exact details of the payment amount and frequency), it can be difficult to pin down its exact value.

Additionally, while a pension is usually considered a joint marital asset, that doesn’t mean it’s always split 50/50. The exact amount varies according to each state’s law and how much of the pension was earned during the marriage. But it’s important to remember that if you and your spouse signed a prenuptial agreement protecting your pension plan, your pension remains yours.

If you have a military or government pension, these are governed by their own specific set of rules and may not be subjected to the same rules when splitting your assets in a divorce.

If you are going to get a divorce, this is one of the items that you will need to discuss with your attorney. Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
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Cost of a Divorce

How much does it cost to get a divorce? It’s king of like, how much does it cost to build a

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house. It depends. The amount of time that an attorney has to invest in a case depends on a lot of factors. The more time we have to invest, obviously the more we have to charge. Some of the things that make a divorce more time consuming are discussed below.

Disagreements over children. This is one of the most common arguments former couples have during a divorce. Divorcing spouses may disagree over the terms of child support payments or time-sharing. Battles over child custody are extremely common during a contested divorce involving children. As a result, there may be a need for more court proceedings or mediation to work through the disagreements.

Disagreements over alimony. One spouse may have to pay the other spouse alimony, also called spousal support. Like other disagreements during a divorce, disputes over the amount of alimony can necessitate legal proceedings or mediation.

Complex finances are involved. Some divorcing spouses may have incredibly complex finances, such as assets in multiple states or multiple properties. The more complicated your assets, the longer it might take to resolve a divorce. Additionally, divorce can take longer when one spouse is hiding assets or refusing to turn over important financial documents.

On purpose. Divorces can be an extremely emotional process. It is not uncommon for former spouses to lash out at each other financially or professionally. In some cases, one spouse may purposefully delay the time it takes to complete a divorce to hurt the other spouse.

These are only a few common reasons why it may take longer to complete a divorce. Divorce cases involving financial disputes or children may take longer to complete due to the circumstances. Spouses without children, disagreements or complicated finances are more likely to complete their divorce cases faster.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.

Divorce and Taxes

If you are about to go through a divorce, taxes are probably the last thing on your mind.

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But it is something that you need to address.Divorce can be financially devastating enough without paying unnecessary taxes.

Transferring Assets as a result of the settlement
Transferring assets between spouses during a divorce often carries no tax consequences for either party. However, depending on the basis that is invested in certain assets, there could be hidden tax consequences associated with selling that asset. Some assets that may have hidden tax consequences include investment holdings, real estate, and business interests. The tax consequences associated with these assets may end up reducing the value of the assets that appear to be worth more.

Who gets the tax deduction for the children?
The IRS states that a parent who is primarily in charge of parenting a child has the right to claim that child as a dependent on his or her tax return. There is one exception to this rule, however, which is when the child’s custodial parent allocates dependency of the child to the non-custodial parent in a written document. The distribution of these exemptions and any corresponding value needs to be addressed in the divorce decree, and the value should be considered in the overall value of income between the spouses.Individuals are not able to file their taxes jointly for the year they get divorced. If the divorce occurs at the end of the year, it is important for both individuals to adjust their withholdings to account for the change in their filing status. If the divorce occurs earlier in the year, however, there may be no large impact on how the individuals file their taxes. The change in filing status should be considered part of the overall resolution of the divorce.

Are Alimony Payments Deductible

They used to be, but they aren’t anymore. Alimony or separate maintenance payments are not deductible from the income of the payer spouse, or includable in the income of the receiving spouse, if made under a divorce or separation agreement executed after Dec. 31, 2018.

Taking these considerations into account can help divorcing couples minimize the potential pitfalls they may face when filing their taxes. Additionally, both parties should discuss it with their divorce lawyers as well as their financial advisors regarding which tax implications may or may not apply to them.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.

Getting Custody

When going through a divorce, usually one of the greatest concerns is getting custody. In parents tugging childtoday’s world, the courts lean in the direction of working towards join custody, but joint custody is not always awarded, and you want to do whatever you can improve the custody rights that you are awarded.

Where does it make the most sense for your minor children to reside? With you or with your spouse? Is it possible that you and your spouse could agree on this issue? That would certainly would make things easier. Otherwise, it will be up to the court to decide.

When going through a divorce, parents must determine with whom their minor children will live and who will make critical child-rearing decisions. If divorcing parents cannot make these decisions, they take the issue to court. Understanding how the legal system works and getting child custody help from an expert can increase the chance of winning custody.

The primary goal in every child custody case is an arrangement that is in the best interests of the child. A judge must decide on both physical and legal custody, resulting in many potential outcomes. While it is possible to win sole custody in divorce, more parents find themselves getting joint custody. This allows each parent to maintain a physical presence and making important decisions regarding their children’s future.

A safe living environment that includes necessary amenities is important, so a parent seeking custody should create this, whether remaining in the marital home or moving to a different residence. If possible, the parent should find a home in the school district the child attended before the divorce because this maintains stability. If the parent must change jobs, the work schedule should accommodate the daily routine of the child.

Stability Is Important
Stability should also be the focus with personal relationships. A parent trying to win custody during divorce should not quickly begin a new relationship that involves cohabitating or spending excessive time together. Instead, the adult should take time to adjust to the new single lifestyle and focus on the needs of each child. There will be plenty of time in the future to resume dating.

Most spouses disagree at some point during a divorce but they should try to avoid a custody battle at all costs. A parent who puts the needs of the children above all other issues and keeps children away from disagreements that arise is more likely to receive custody. Taking this one step further, a parent who does not stand in the way of the other parent’s attempts to win custody is viewed in the most favorable light.

Divorcing spouses are not expected to be legal experts, so they should not hesitate to get child custody help from a family law attorney. Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
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Keeping the House

So you are getting a divorce and you are wondering whether to keep the house for the kidsSmall house with sold label sake. That is certainly desirable for the kids. Divorce is traumatic enough as it is. If you stay in the house, the kids can maintain their relationships with their friends, and keep going to the same school. But we can’t always have everything we want. The house may have been purchased with there were two incomes to contribute to the mortgage payment. Now you may only have one. There is always the issue that the house may not fit the new lifestyle. Mon may not be able to keep up the house without help.

In order to retain the home, one spouse may need to purchase the other spouse’s equity in the property. This may involve a cash payment or giving up other assets that are owned jointly. It may be possible to refinance the home mortgage for an amount that exceeds the mortgage balance and use the proceeds to pay the other spouse for his or her equity in the home.

Keeping the home may seem to provide stability during an otherwise chaotic time. An ex-spouse may opt to keep the house for a short time after divorcing and then make a long-term decision after settling into the new lifestyle. Others decide that selling the home is the best choice because it harbors unhappy memories shared by the children. It is sometimes best to make a clean break and start fresh.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney First

Selling the home may seem like it would put the divorced couple in better financial standing, with some cash to use for a down payment on an individual residence. This is not always the case. A divorcing couples should consult with their family law attorney and real estate agent to determine how much they can sell their home for and what selling costs are involved, then subtract the mortgage balance from this figure.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.

Getting Help During a Divorce

Divorce is one of the most stressful experiences that you will ever have. You will probably therapyexperience emotions that you never had before, with an intensity you probably never had before. You may want to consider going to a therapist to help you work through the challenge.

Support To Help You Cope With Stress
The stress of your divorce can affect various aspects of your life that you might not have considered. Talking to a therapist about your negative feelings allows you to have an in-depth conversation to find possible solutions to your dilemmas. Some therapists also teach their clients stress reduction techniques and different strategies, such as mindfulness meditation, to help keep them focused. Therapy can also help you cope with feelings of anger, frustration, sadness, or loss so that you can identify where your marriage went off track, as well as which issues to be aware of when you form new relationships in the future.

Therapists Provide Honest Feedback
In addition to listening and helping you cope with your issues, therapists also provide neutral feedback that you likely won’t get from close friends and family who are worried about hurting your feelings. While your friend might mean well, often, they will resort to just telling you to want to hear because they think that will help you get through this difficult time. Therapists facilitate conversations that urge their clients to explore situations from multiple perspectives. This can help you become more flexible when it comes to making decisions regarding your divorce and also with accepting the role you played in the ending of the marriage.

Therapists Help Families Cope With Changes
When children are involved in the divorce, family therapy is an option that provides a safe place for parents and their children to discuss and process the changes that are occurring within the family and each household. Whether your teenager is angry or your youngest child is confused, family therapy can get you started on the path of healing and rebuilding your relationships with each other. For divorced parents, family therapy can also help parents come up with strategies for remaining courteous and respectful towards each other.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

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Your Children and Your divorce

So you have decided to get a divorce. Most likely, your attention has been all aboutchild leavingfinancial matters and where you are going to live, and all those kind o things. However, at some point you need to focus on the arrangements that you and your wife are going to make in reference to your children.

How are you going to manage visitation? You have to take into account your working schedules, and how far away you and your spouse are going to live from each other. But you have to decide when each of you are going to have the kids. And you really have to have a workable plan for Christmas and New Years.

How are your going to arrange when and where the kids are dropped off. You want to make arrangements to avoid conflict between the two of you as much as possible. Having your new love interest drop of the kids is probably not a great idea.

Event Planning. Who is going to attend your sons football games and your daughter’s soccer practice. If you can’t agree on these items, you could address them during mediation.

Leaving your kids with other people. If you think that your ex-spouse might want to leave your kids in a situation that you are not comfortable with, you might ask that you be given first chance at taking the kids when those situations arise.

Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

For more information, visit our website at www.divorceboardcertified.com
or call (727) 787-5919.