The children typically don’t get to choose which parent they want to live with. There are several reasons for this. First of all the courts don’t like to involve minor children in divorce proceedings.

Also, minor children are typically not mature enough to make decisions that can have such a major effect on their future. This could also put a strain on am otherwise good relationship with a parent.

Also, the children may make the decision for the wrong reason. Do we really want to place the children the parent who doesn’t properly discipline the children?

Certainly the court wants to place the children in the place that is in their best interests. However, this may not be the place that they would choose.

Whether or not a child’s preference matters depends on whether the child:

• Is intelligent enough to make decisions of this nature;
• Has the emotional capacity to decide who to live with;
• Understands the consequences of choosing one parent over the other in a custody case;
• Has enough experience with each parent;

If you are concerned with child custody issues, come in and talk to Ty Zdravko. Ty Zdravko practices law as a divorce attorney, and family law attorney in Palm Harbor, Clearwater and the surrounding area.

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